A lot of people have been asking when did Kunal start loving Siddhi, why did he start, how etc.
I have to admit that I haven't seen the episode from the day1 so I don't know all the reasons why he hated Siddhi in the beginning.
But I think I have seen most of the key bits after their wedding..
And here is my take on the reasons,
As I mentioned before, I think the why is not so important, and no one can really ever say why they like someone. There can simply be no reason to like someone, you just like someone or you dont like. There can be some few things or characteristics which one may like in some one.
So say, I like how he/she smiles, how positive that person is, how helpful that person is, how caring that person is, how independent and what good attitude that person has.
But is he/she the only person who has those qualities? There will be a lot of other people who may have those qualities but will I like them ? I don't think so. It is a unique combination of lot of things which makes one like someone..And then also finally, the whole is more than the sum of its parts..so why he likes Siddhi, is something really tough to say completely. Yes there can be some main things..
Then people are saying, that they didnt show him falling in but they showed Siddhi..I would like to point out a few events which showed it..(just it was nt made obvious like Siddhi, where she was smiling like crazy or being jealous or doing the running around etc) -they did show how and when he has been showen taking care of her- not sure why he did that.
1. From day 1, he told her not to work with T company - Why? Because they would take his revenge on her.
2. There have been two occassions when he has shouted at her (yes ok, he shouted at her a lot more after the divorce thing..most of the times for no fault of her's and in the beg of marriage for every small thing he shouted at her)..but if we talk about incidents before divorce, he shouted at her once when he came to know she gave him a recommendation for job and when something happened around sankrant and he shouted at her and asked her not to talk to him. Other than that, always if she cried he was there to console her.
Infact not only does he offer the tissue, but he makes it a point to help cheer her up
during her bday, he talks all that abt she asking for a car world tour for gift
at home, when he tells he has come to the room for first time after marriage, he again realises she was upset and talks abt the photo to cheer her up
even after the first court case, he tells, acha hua tum aise court mein nahi royee, warna judge
and during that whole case, he tells her couple of times to leave T's job
3. Even if he loves her because of the good things she has done for him and his family, is that not a good enough reason..I don't think there are too many ppl other than your best friends who will care so much for you
4. When Siddhi was paying for Ms Raveena, Kunal was helping Ms Shilpa
5. During the whole wedding thing, he didn't tell her a word when she imitates him in front of all the relatives, puts haldi on his face. He didnt shout at her even once.
6. He likes her just because she is his wife. I think somewhere the custom.rituals bind the people whether they admit it, whether they like it or not. He has always showed or used his right on her (in a good way, but he has always fulfilled his responsibiliites towards her)
7. During that famous diwali scene..inspite of their initial argument, he does try to help her..it was more like or a case where ppl fight with their siblings / spouse at home, but outside they are still one.
8. During the whole Raveena's wedding, he also shared a lot of painful things with her..they never showed Kunal's emotional side being revealed to the other family, but with Siddhi--when he misses anand.his mom and says that the ppl who had so much craze abt Raveena's wedding are not there..and when he was emotional after her bidaai..He also shared her doubts abt hiding things from Vikram with her. So she was someone he could confide in
9. All the times when Siddhi had helped him, he had also helped her.
I havent listed each and every small thing..but I think during the last one year as CV's have said,, that they have been married for a year, just like Siddhi had reasons to like him, so did he.. Just that it wasn't made obvious with the dialogues..
Just my pov !!
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